Coherence is about being connected and making sense. We all like to be coherent, and it is the mark of an integrated character that it makes sense. When we meet persons who are either drunk or under the influence of drugs we say that they do not make sense at all, that they are, in fact, incoherent. Their thoughts, and indeed feelings, are not connecting well, are not cohering into a pattern that makes any sense at all to those of us whom they encounter. Storr looks upon personal development as the search for coherence. Elsewhere in his other writings he refers to the integration of the psyche or personality, another term for coherence. Jung calls this phenomenon individuation, and other scholars, psychiatrists and psychologists have given it various names like "self-actualization" (Carl Rogers) or self-realization (Eastern Relgions: Buddhism and Hinduism). Though the names differ the reality referred to is the one and the same.
Storr refers to the crucial importance of intimate human relationships to the formation of a healthy psyche and that when such relationships go wrong the human psyche is thrown out of kilter to a considerable extent. Likewise, it is singularly crucial, as we have recounted in many of the nine preceeding posts in this series, that the infant and young child bonds well with the mother and other significant adults if it is to develop in a healthy manner in life as is evidenced by the ground-breaking work of the pyschiatrist and analyst Dr John Bowlby on attachment and loss. However, in this seminal work, while he acknowledges the crucial role of relationships in the formation of a healthy psyche, he also acknowledges the role of solitude, interests and hobbies in its formation and stabilization.
A person, like Kafka, who is pathologically introverted, that is a person who can make little or no intimate contacts with others, is described by psychiatrists as schizoid. However, there are others, and quite a number too, who are not schizoid at all, but who can manage to relinquish a need for intimacy. In Storr's own words: "They are not so disturbed when relationships go wrong because, for them, the meaning of life is less bound up with intimate relationships than it is in the case of most people." (Solitude, p. 146)
Who are these others? They are mostly creative geniuses who can be found among all the arts and sciences, as well as monks, nuns, hermits and loners. They are in no sense pathological or schizoid. Once again I reurn here to Storr's words:
In an earlier book, I stressed the need for interpersonal relationships in the maturing of personality... I still believe this; but I want to add a rider to the effect that maturation and integration can take place within the isolated individual to a greater extent that I had allowed for. The great introverted creators are able to define identity and achieve self-realization by self-reference, that is, by interacting with their own past work rather than by interacting with other people. (Ibid., p. 147)Heinz Kohut
This is another term that appeals greatly to me. It is much in keeping with the thought of Jung and indeed of Storr and the great late Dr Ronnie Laing. If integration or coherence or individuation or self-realization or self-actualization - call this by whichever term you wish - is the goal of life, it becomes the very essence of life's meaning by being such. Therefore, disintegration or lack of integration is the very essence of meaninglessness, absurdity and sheer desolation. Hence, it is no wonder that Kohut believes that disintegration anxiety is the worst anxiety that any human being can suffer. The individuals whom he considers liable to this are those who, because of the immaturity of their parents' responses to them in childhood have not built up a strong coherent personality. Once again disintegration anxiety can be compared with the fears of destruction of the "inner self" in schizoid subjects which Ronnie Laing describes so well in his wonderful The Divided Self.
Three Geniuses who preferred Solitude
|Sir Isaac Newton|
The psychopathology of such men is no more than an exaggeration of traits which can be found in all of us. We all need to find some order in the world, to make some sense out of our existence. Those who are particularly concerned with such a search bear witness to the fact that interpersonal relationships are not the only way of finding emothional fulfilment. (Ibid., p. 167)